Dr. Vijai S Shankar MD.PhD.
Published on www.academ-advaita.com
6 February 2020
Children will have their own quantity of sound as illusory words within their memory due to evolution. The quantity of illusory words will come out precisely when they are meant to come out.
Give your children love and support every day. Neither expect them to speak words that you want them to speak nor expect them to have the knowledge you want them to have.
Understand that the word they are meant to speak will be spoken by them whether you like it or not or whether the children like it or not. Understand that the knowledge that is meant to happen to them will happen whether you like it or not or whether the children like it or not.
Understand to love and take care of your children unconditionally. Understand that through you they have come. Understand that you cannot expect others to love and take care of your children and neither can your children expect.
Your children may evolve to be like a turbulent river or they may evolve to be like a peaceful pond. Let them flower out themselves as they are meant to flower, just as a flower does due to evolution, which is the intelligence in life.
The child is happy as it is. Understand that you want your children to be happy in your terms. The child will be happy, if it is meant to be happy in life. Trust life and not your mind.
Understand that trust and patience in life is deep understanding that happens in the process of awakening. Understand that deep understanding is due to the intelligence in life and you cannot make deep understanding happen to you.
Understand that consciousness evolves everyone as they are in daily life. When this wisdom evolves in you, the house will be in harmony. This wisdom happens in the process of awakening to enlightenment.
Understand that you cannot make this process of awakening happen to you. The wise understand that the process of awakening will happen if it is meant to happen.
The enlightened love children and adults as they are in any moment of daily life.
Author: Dr. Vijai S. Shankar
© Copyright V.S. Shankar 2020
Human beings are fully gifted in their lives. These gifts are there to evolve in each and every one, if they are meant to. The realisation of these gifts is not for man to determine or bring to maturity, as the wise in these articles and elsewhere reveal.
The gift of the intelligence in life determines what is in each moment. The gift of trust in life for whatever is and patience in accepting whatever happens. The gift of deep understanding is there to share with the wise and mature, if it is meant to. The gift of awakening in the brilliance of the light of the enlightened. The gift of enlightenment is the realisation of man – his true being.
Julian Capper. UK
German Translator‘s Note:
No pupil or teacher can escape the conviction that what is taught is a matter of willpower, whether it is learned or not. Motivation is the key word in parent meetings and at home when parents want to encourage their children to learn. Love often falls by the wayside in a variety of motivational attempts, as it depends on the child's intellectual efforts and achievements, even if all parents claim to love their children. The wise reveal this game of the conditions of love at home and in schools as what it is: a game of selfishness, not love. May readers awaken to unconditional parental love as they read these articles on Dr. Shankar's awakening thoroughly and understand what love is not and what unconditional love really is.
Marcus Stegmaier, Germany.